Royal Army College

Lesson Overview

So far the course has asked you to look first to your own household. That is right: a member who can keep their family safe is one fewer person to rescue and one more who can help. This lesson turns outward, to the helping itself.

It rests on a plain truth the small Nordic and Baltic states put at the centre of their guidance. Beyond your own front door, the community is the strongest safety net most people will ever have, and neighbours help neighbours long before any official help arrives. This is the community layer of resilience, the layer Lesson 01 placed second, after the household and before local government, the state, and the Army that stands ready to support them. The nearest layers hold first.

None of this is heroic, and none of it asks you to do the rescue services' work. It asks you to be, in the worst hours, the calm and capable neighbour the street needs, within sensible limits. A neighbour who becomes a casualty has not added a helper but subtracted one.

By the end you will be able to explain why the community acts before official help arrives; identify and look in on the vulnerable near you, knowing in advance which doors to knock on; build community bonds and a loose plan before an emergency; check on others safely and plug your help into the official effort rather than freelancing; reassure children and offer basic psychological care to the distressed; keep yourself from becoming a casualty and know the limits of what a neighbour should attempt; and look after yourself while you help.

Key Terms

The community safety net: the web of neighbours, family, and friends who know and help one another, the first and nearest source of help in any emergency.
The vulnerable: those least able to manage alone and most at risk in an emergency, including the elderly, the disabled, the seriously ill, the isolated, those who depend on power for medical equipment, and families with very young children.
Community resilience: the readiness of a neighbourhood, built before a crisis, to look after its own, founded on neighbours knowing one another and knowing who may need help.
Know-your-street map: a simple picture, made in calm times, of who on a street or in a building may need help, so the right doors are known before the time comes to knock on them.
Community plan: a loose, agreed understanding among neighbours of how they will keep in touch, who will check on whom, and what arrangements they share, kept on paper so it survives a power cut.
Psychological first aid: simple, humane care for a distressed person, offering calm, safety, comfort, listening, practical help, and a link to further support, rather than treatment.
Plugging in: offering your help to those coordinating the official response and taking a real task within it, rather than acting alone alongside it.
The casualty rule: the firm principle that you cannot help others if you become a casualty yourself, so you do not enter danger that belongs to the emergency services.

The community is the strongest safety net

The course has already shown that the civil services cannot reach everyone at once, and that the greater the crisis, the longer their help takes. The consequence is blunt: in the first hours, the help most people receive will not come from a uniform but from the people next door. A neighbour is closer than any responder, arrives sooner, knows the household and the street, and is already there when the power fails or the water rises. This is not a gap in the system; it is the system working as it must.

The reason is arithmetic, not sentiment. In any serious emergency, demand arrives everywhere at once, while the supply of trained responders is fixed and was sized for ordinary days. Often the roads they would use are the very things the emergency has broken. So there is always a first window, measured in hours and sometimes longer, in which the only help present is already on the spot: the neighbours. The question is not whether neighbours will be first responders, because they always are, but whether they will be ready ones.

For a small principality, where people are close and bonds already strong, this is a particular asset. The member who has prepared their own household has done the first thing; the second is to be a good neighbour, taking part in the small acts that, repeated across a district, turn a disaster into a hardship managed. A connected street is itself a form of readiness, as real as a torch in the drawer. Unlike the torch, it cannot be bought in an afternoon; it is built slowly, in the ordinary course of living somewhere.

Knowing and helping the vulnerable

Not everyone meets an emergency from the same footing. In any community some people are, through no fault of their own, least able to manage alone when services fail. A multi-day power cut in hard winter is dangerous for a fit adult and can be deadly for a frail one. The national guides name these people first, because they are whom the whole effort exists to protect, and the ones a neighbour can most easily save simply by knowing them and looking in.

The elderly, especially those living alone. They feel cold sooner, dehydrate sooner, and tire sooner; a fall is more likely and harder to recover from; and there may be no one to notice they are in difficulty. A power cut or heatwave a younger adult shrugs off can be life-threatening.
People who depend on power for medical equipment. A powered breathing aid, an oxygen concentrator, a stairlift, the refrigeration that keeps a medicine usable, the charger for a powered wheelchair: for them a power cut is an emergency from the first minute, and a neighbour's early knock may be what gets word to the services in time.
People with a disability or long-term illness. Limited mobility may strand a person when the lift fails; a deaf person may miss a spoken warning; a blind person may be lost on a darkened street; a seriously ill person may run short of vital medicine.
Those who live alone or are isolated. Isolation removes the first thing that keeps anyone safe: someone who would notice. A person with no family or friends nearby may also be too proud or too frightened to ask.
Families with very young children. The very young cannot regulate their own warmth, fetch their own food, or act on a warning. A household with an infant has needs that do not pause for a power cut, and stretched parents may welcome a hand.

The duty is quiet and specific: know who near you may need help, and look in on them. Before any crisis you should be able to name the elderly couple two doors down, the wheelchair user who lives alone, the young family above, the neighbour whose breathing aid runs on the mains, and know them well enough to call without it being strange. The knowing must come first, in the calm; you cannot map a street in the dark with the power down. Building that picture is the subject of the section after next.

When the emergency comes, the checking has a shape. Go early, before people are in difficulty, and go again, because someone managing at dusk may not be by midnight. Knock at the doors you know matter, give your name, say why you are there, and wait to be admitted; a frightened person behind a darkened door needs to know who is outside it. Then run the same simple checks each time: are they warm; are they fed and watered without the mains; do they have the medicine they depend on, in hand and usable; is any equipment they rely on working or backed up; and are they frightened or alone, needing company as much as supplies.

Offer help as the humanitarian-outreach course, Caring for Those in Need, teaches: with dignity, as a meeting between two people, not a problem to be processed. Ask before you act, offer rather than impose, and listen. A frail or frightened person has lost none of their right to be treated as a person, and the small courtesies, a name used, a choice offered, an unhurried minute, are most of the help.

Two cautions belong here. The first is consent: a person may decline, and a no is respected, as Caring for Those in Need teaches. Make sure they are safe for now and leave the door open, but do not force a kindness on someone who does not want it. The second is the limit of what you can fix. Where a need runs past what a neighbour can meet, the failing battery, the medicine run out, the illness worsened, your task is to make sure the right people know and to pass word up to the official effort. Knowing the limit, and handing on what lies past it, is part of helping well.

   A KNOW-YOUR-STREET MAP: who on the lane may need help
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      No. 1        No. 3 *OLDER, ALONE*   No. 5
      Family,      Lives alone, frail.    Away weekdays,
      no special   Feels cold fast.       no special need
      need         CHECK FIRST.
   ---------------------------- LANE ----------------------------
      No. 2        No. 4                  No. 6 *YOUNG CHILDREN*
      Couple,      No special need        Family, infant +
      could help                          toddler. Needs
      (high-clear-                        water, warmth.
      ance van)

      No. 8 *POWER-DEPENDENT*   No. 10        No. 12 *WHEELCHAIR*
      Breathing aid on mains.   Nurse,        Powered chair,
      Power cut = emergency.    can help.     lift-dependent.
      TELL SERVICES EARLY.                    Stranded if lift
                                              fails.

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   * = may need a neighbour's help     also note who CAN help
   Made one quiet afternoon, on paper, kept where it survives
   a power cut. In the dark you go straight to the doors that
   matter instead of working it out from scratch.

Building community resilience before the crisis

The bonds that carry a neighbourhood through an emergency cannot be improvised once it has begun. They are built beforehand, and building them is itself an act of preparedness, as real as any store of water. The foundation is simply knowing your neighbours. A street where people know one another's names will check on its own when the lights go out; a street of strangers will not.

Four practical measures, drawn from the small-state guides and adapted to this course's layered model, are worth adopting. None is elaborate, and you can begin all four as a good neighbour.

Know your neighbours. The bedrock. Learn the names and faces on your street or floor; know roughly who lives where, who lives alone, who has young children, who is elderly. You need not be close friends, only on terms where a knock in a crisis is natural rather than strange. The ordinary sociability of a word at the bins is what turns a building of strangers into a community that looks after itself, and it costs nothing.

Make a know-your-street map. This follows from knowing the vulnerable: work out in advance who may need help, so that when the time comes you go straight to the door that matters. A simple note on paper survives a power cut. The figure above shows the shape of it: doors marked because someone there may need help, doors marked because someone there can give it, and the rest. Done once, it turns the chaos of a dark night into a short list of known calls.

Keep a simple community network. A way to reach one another. Hold a short list of contacts, neighbours, those who may need looking in on, local key figures, on paper, with an agreement to keep in touch and watch out for one another. Agree, too, how you will communicate when the ordinary network is down: a phone tree if the power holds, a place to leave a written note, a card in a window for all-is-well or help-needed. The means matters less than the agreement that there is one.

Hold a loose community plan. This draws the others together. Where there are common arrangements to make, neighbours are stronger making them together: who checks on the elderly resident upstairs and the power-dependent neighbour at the end; a warm room to gather in; a shared store of water, or an agreement on who has what to lend, the camping stove, the generator, the vehicle that can manage a flooded road; a sense of who has useful skills, the retired nurse, the trained first-aider, the one who stays calm. It need be no more than a shared understanding kept lightly current.

One word of proportion holds across all four. This is calm, neighbourly preparedness, not a private response force, and no substitute for the official services or a reason to keep them at arm's length. The community layer acts first because it is nearest, but it acts within the wider effort that local government and the state lead and the Army may support. The better a community knows its own people, the better it works with the services when they arrive, telling them at once who is power-dependent, who is still unaccounted for, who is already being looked after.

Checking on others safely, and plugging into the official effort

A willing neighbour who acts wisely does far more than one who acts rashly. Two disciplines turn goodwill into useful help: checking on others safely, and, once an organised response is under way, plugging into it rather than freelancing beside it.

Begin with safe checking, the everyday form of the casualty rule treated in full below. Before you reach a neighbour's door, read the way there and the door itself, as the Personal Safety lesson of Caring for Those in Need teaches a welfare team to read a scene: is the stairwell dark and the footing sound, is there water across the path, any smell of gas, is the structure safe to enter. Do not go alone into danger to reach someone. If a building is flooded, on fire, or visibly damaged, that is for the emergency services; keep others back, mark the danger, and get the right help. Take a torch and a charged phone, tell someone where you are going and when you expect back, and keep your own footing and exit in mind. Checking on a neighbour is a small kindness, not a rescue, and it stays a kindness only if you come back able to make the next call.

When an emergency grows beyond what neighbours alone can handle, an organised response takes shape, run by the civil authorities and the rescue services and, where the crisis exceeds their capacity, supported by the Army. The most useful thing a willing helper can do then changes: stop acting on your own initiative and plug in. Uncoordinated spontaneous volunteers, however well-meant, can hinder a response as much as help it. They arrive where they are not needed, draw responders away to manage them, clog the routes the services must use, duplicate some efforts while leaving others undone, and sometimes put themselves in the very danger responders are trying to keep people out of. Willing hands are precious, but only when coordinated.

So the rule is to offer your help to those coordinating it, take a real task, and work inside it. Find out who is leading, the civil authority, the rescue services, a recognised relief body, an established volunteer organisation, and present yourself. Say plainly what you can do. Take the task you are given, even if it is humble, sandbags filled, a list checked, a warm centre staffed, tea made for cold responders, the displaced looked after at the edge of the scene, and do it well within the direction given. Do not appoint yourself to the dramatic or dangerous jobs; those belong to the trained and equipped. A helper who plugs in becomes a multiplier of the response; one who freelances becomes one more thing it must manage.

   HELPING SAFELY, AND PLUGGING IN: the flow
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   See a need to help others
            |
            v
   [ Is it safe for ME to act? ]
            |
        NO  |  Floodwater, fire, a damaged or
            |  unstable building, anything past
            +--> a neighbour's limit?
            |        |
            |        v
            |   DO NOT ENTER. Keep others back,
            |   mark the danger, CALL the services.
            |   (You help most by not becoming the
            |    next casualty.)
            |
       YES  v
   [ Is there an organised response yet? ]
            |
        NO  |  First hours, neighbours only.
            +--> Check on the vulnerable you know.
            |    Share what you have. Steady people.
            |    Stay within a neighbour's limits.
            |        |
            |        v
       YES  |   When the services / authority arrive,
            +-->-+   tell them what you know and who
                 |   is still unaccounted for.
                 v
   [ PLUG IN: offer your help to those coordinating it ]
            |
            v
   Take a REAL task. Work WITHIN it, under direction.
   Do it well, however humble. Do not freelance.
            |
            v
   You are now a multiplier of the response,
   not one more thing it must manage.
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   The same discipline the whole Aid to the Civil Power course
   teaches: the civil authority and the services LEAD; the
   willing helper, like the supporting soldier, fits IN.

This is the principle that governs the whole Aid to the Civil Power course, and it holds for the private neighbour as for the soldier on a tasked deployment: the civil authority and the rescue services lead, and the helper, like the supporting Army, fits in beneath them. It is also why the College certifies its hands-on skills in person and organises its members rather than turning them loose.

Not becoming a casualty, and knowing your limits

One rule sits above all the others, and it must be learned before any technique: you cannot help others if you become a casualty yourself. The Personal Safety lesson of Caring for Those in Need states the arithmetic plainly. A rescuer who walks into danger and is overcome has not added a helper; they have added a second person who needs help and drawn others away from those they came to serve. One casualty becomes two, the task stalls, and the person in need is no better off, often worse. You cannot lift someone from the water if you are in the water beside them. Staying safe is not the opposite of the duty to help; it is what makes that duty possible.

From this follows a firm, unbending limit. Certain dangers belong to the emergency services, who are trained, equipped, and organised for them, and to no one else. Do not enter a burning or smoke-filled building: smoke harms before the flame reaches you, and a flat can fill with it in seconds. Do not enter floodwater: moving water is stronger and colder than it looks, a shallow flow can take an adult off their feet, and it hides holes, debris, and contamination while chilling a body within minutes. Reach a person from the bank with something held out, a pole, a rope, a branch, but do not go in. Do not enter a damaged or collapsing building: rescue from an unstable structure is specialist work, and an untrained person who goes in most often becomes the next person under the rubble. Do not approach fallen power lines, and treat any downed or damaged cable as live. The fuller treatment is the Personal Safety lesson of Caring for Those in Need; carry its discipline into every act of helping a neighbour.

Where you meet one of these dangers, your help does not end; it changes shape. Keep others back, mark or guard the hazard so no one else walks in, account for who may be inside or unaccounted for, and get the right help to the right place with the clearest information you can give. The member who holds a scene and summons the services has done more good than the one who rushes in and must now be rescued.

Knowing your limits runs wider than physical danger. As Caring for Those in Need teaches, a helper recognises distress, steadies a person, and offers comfort and basic care, but does not diagnose, counsel, treat, or attempt to heal a mind or a body. That is the work of qualified medical and mental-health staff; the most competent thing you can do is recognise the need, support the person meanwhile, and get them to those who can treat them. The same holds for first aid: the Combat First Aid course teaches you to give first aid within your training and to call the medics for what lies beyond it, and a neighbour does the same. The most disciplined sentence in this field, which Caring for Those in Need names, is also the most useful: "this is beyond me; let me get the right person." It is not a retreat. It is how a helper protects the person they are helping, and themselves.

Helping children through an emergency

Children feel an emergency keenly, and they take their cue from the adults around them. A child who sees the grown-ups frightened will be frightened; a child who sees them calm and capable will, for the most part, be steadied. So the first and best thing you can do for a child in a crisis is to manage your own composure. Calm is contagious, and so is panic, and the child is watching closely.

Beyond that, a few simple things help.

Be calm, because they read you first. Slow your voice and your movements. A child takes in your manner before your words.
Tell them the truth, gently and in proportion. Use words they can understand, to a degree they can bear. Do not pretend nothing is wrong, which they will see through, but do not burden them with every fear. Above all, tell them what is being done to keep them safe.
Keep them close. Your presence is reassurance. A child who can see and reach a trusted adult is far steadier than one left alone with their imagination.
Hold to routine. Keep the ordinary rhythms of the day as far as you can, meals, rest, a familiar story, a usual bedtime. Routine tells a child the world still holds together.
Let them ask, and answer simply. Answer plainly and honestly without over-explaining. A child often needs less than an adult fears, and the asking itself helps.
Give them something to do. A small job, carrying a torch, fetching a blanket, minding a younger sibling, hands them a little control in a situation that has taken it away.

These are exactly the things you can do for a neighbour's children as well as your own. A calm adult who steadies the children while the parents handle the practical work is giving real help.

A calm presence and basic psychological care

Among the most useful things anyone can bring to an emergency is a steady manner. Lesson 01 said a prepared, calm person steadies those around them; nowhere is that truer than among the distressed. People struck by a crisis are frightened, shaken, sometimes overwhelmed, and what they need first, before any practical fix, is to feel safe and not alone. To provide that is within every member's reach and asks no special training, only humanity and self-command.

This is basic psychological care, sometimes called psychological first aid. It is not therapy or treatment; it is the humane, practical care any steady person can give a shaken one, held as a short sequence. The international first-aid guidance the College adapts sets it out in much these terms, and the small-state guides say the same in plainer words.

Be calm, and let it show. Your steadiness is the first thing you offer and the thing the person reads before any word. Drop your own tension before you engage.
Bring them to safety. Get the person away from danger and the worst of the scene, somewhere quieter and warmer, before anything else. A person cannot settle while the danger is still on top of them.
Listen, without rushing or arguing. Let them speak at their own pace; do not press, correct, or argue them out of their feelings. It is natural to be sad, frightened, or confused in a crisis. A person who feels heard is already a little steadier.
Attend to immediate, practical needs. Much distress eases with plain things: a blanket, a hot drink, a place to sit, water, a hand to hold. Meeting a simple bodily need settles a person more than any words.
Reassure honestly, without false promises. Tell them, where it is true, that they are safe now, that help is coming, that they are not alone. Do not pretend a hurt away; honest reassurance is worth more than a fiction the person will see through.
Stay with them, and link them on. Being alone is hard for a shaken person, so stay. Where their need runs past what a calm presence can meet, link them on, to family or friends, to the welfare or medical services, to whoever can give the help you cannot.
Be patient. People recover at their own pace, and pressing them often slows it.

None of this is treatment, and a member is not a counsellor. Where distress is severe or lasting, where a person is a danger to themselves, or where grief or shock runs beyond what a calm presence can hold, see that they reach those who can help properly. Seeking such help, for another or yourself, is sensible, not failure. But the simple presence of a calm person who stays, listens, helps with the small things, and links the person on is a real and powerful care, often exactly what the worst hour needs. The same care, in fuller form including acute distress, anger, and grief, is taught in Caring for Those in Need, and again in its most demanding forms in the emergency-relief teaching of the Aid to the Civil Power course. One rule bears repeating: with the distressed you comfort and steady, then get the right help; you do not probe the wound by making them relive it.

Looking after yourself while you help

Everything in this lesson depends on the helper staying fit to help. A helper who is run down, frozen, hungry, or overwhelmed is no use to a neighbour and may become a burden to the response. Looking after yourself is not separate from helping others; it is the casualty rule turned inward. As Caring for Those in Need puts it: you cannot pour from an empty vessel.

Much of this is physical and unglamorous, and it works. Keep yourself warm, fed, and watered as you help, as Lesson 04 teaches for coping without services; the member who skips meals and lets themselves chill will be the next one needing care. Do not run yourself into the ground over a long emergency: a hard night helped and a proper rest taken is worth more than two nights pushed without sleep, because exhaustion degrades the very judgement that keeps you and others safe. Pace what you take on. The connected street works because help is shared across many neighbours, not carried by one who collapses.

The work also carries a weight that is not physical. Seeing suffering you cannot wholly relieve, perhaps being near someone badly hurt, leaves a mark, and rightly so. Notice it rather than ignore it. Talk about what you have seen with the people who were beside you; carrying it silently is not strength. Watch the neighbours and family who helped alongside you for the quiet signs of someone struggling, and ask, and ask again, because the first answer is usually "fine". Seeking support, for yourself or another, is a strength. The fuller care of body and mind, the warning signs, and the discipline of peer support are taught at length in the safeguarding and self-care lesson of Caring for Those in Need. Carry its first principle into every emergency: a helper who is looked after is the only kind who can keep helping.

In Practice: The Cold Night in the Lane

A winter storm takes down the power to the lane, a short street of older houses, late on a freezing evening, and it is plainly off until morning. A member halfway along has a warm room, food, water, and light, and is settled within the hour. But the member also knows the lane: the year before they made a know-your-street map, so nothing has to be worked out in the dark. The older resident alone at number three feels the cold fast; a family with two small children is at number six; the neighbour at number eight depends on a powered breathing aid; the resident at number twelve uses a powered wheelchair and is stranded if the lift fails. The member pulls on a coat, takes a torch and a charged phone, tells their household where they are going, and goes out.

At number three the resident is cold and a little frightened. The member knocks, gives their name, waits to be let in, runs the checks, brings a hot drink and a blanket, sits a few minutes, and walks the resident round to the warm room. At number eight they check the breathing aid's battery backup; this is beyond what a neighbour can fix, so they make sure the civil services know of the household early and do not pretend to more. That is the casualty rule and the limit working together: help to the edge of what a neighbour can do, and hand on what lies past it. At number six the children are wide-eyed; the member crouches to their level, tells them truthfully that the storm has put the lights out and everyone is keeping warm together until morning, and gives the elder a torch to carry. The fright goes out of the room while the parents get on. Up and down the lane other neighbours do the same; the network they agreed long ago carries word even with the mobiles overloaded, and no one is overlooked.

Then the response grows. The local authority opens a warm centre in the hall at the end of the lane and asks for hands. The member does not freelance: they go to whoever is running it, say what they can do, and take the task given, settling the frail as they arrive and keeping a list of who is in and who is still at home. When a fire crew passes, the lane keeps clear and lets them work, and the member tells them who is power-dependent and who is still unaccounted for. The member who came out at dusk kept warm and fed, paced what they took on, and will be fit to help again tomorrow. No one performed a rescue; no one entered danger. The lane simply looked after its own and plugged into the official effort when it came. A street of strangers, with no map and no network, would have met the same night far worse.

Check Your Understanding

Why does the help most people receive in the first hours come from neighbours, not the services, and why is this not a failure of the state? Who are the vulnerable a member should know and look in on, why are they most at risk, and what simple checks would you run at their door?
The bonds that carry a neighbourhood through a crisis are built before it comes. Describe the practical measures a member can take in advance, including a know-your-street map and a community plan, and explain how each helps when an emergency arrives. Why is this neighbourly preparedness no substitute for the official services?
What is basic psychological care, and what does it ask of a member faced with a distressed person? Separately, explain the casualty rule and its limits, why an untrained person rushing into fire, floodwater, or a damaged building usually makes things worse, and why a willing helper should plug into an organised response rather than freelance.

Reflection (write a short paragraph): This lesson argues that a member who has prepared their own household has done only the first thing, and that the second is to be a good neighbour: knowing who near them may need help, looking in on them safely, and plugging into the wider effort rather than acting alone. Think honestly about the street or building where you live. Do you know who would be most at risk in a multi-day power cut in winter, and would you know which doors to knock on first? What might you do, in the ordinary course of life and before any emergency, to build a neighbourhood that looks after its own, and how would you make sure your help strengthened the official response rather than getting in its way?

Summary

Beyond your own household, the community is the strongest safety net most people have. In the first hours neighbours are the nearest help, and a small principality's close bonds are a particular strength. A connected street is the front edge of the response, not a replacement for it.
Know in advance who near you is vulnerable, the elderly, the isolated, the power-dependent, the disabled and seriously ill, families with very young children, look in early and often, and run the simple checks (warm, fed, watered, medicine, equipment, company) with dignity, respecting a no and handing on what is beyond a neighbour.
Build resilience before a crisis: know your neighbours, make a know-your-street map, keep a paper network with an agreed fallback for communicating when it is down, and hold a loose plan of shared arrangements and skills.
Help safely and plug in. Do not go alone into danger. When an organised response forms, offer your help to those coordinating it and take a real task within it, because uncoordinated volunteers can hinder as well as help. The civil authority and the services lead, and the helper, like the supporting Army, fits in, as the Aid to the Civil Power course requires.
You cannot help others if you become a casualty yourself. Burning buildings, floodwater, damaged structures, and fallen power lines belong to the emergency services; keep others back, mark the danger, and get the right help. Know your limits in care and first aid, and use the most disciplined sentence in the work: "this is beyond me; let me get the right person." See the Personal Safety lesson of Caring for Those in Need and the Combat First Aid course.
Children take their cue from the adults; the first help is your own calm. Speak to them calmly and honestly, tell them what is being done to keep them safe, keep them close, hold to routine, and give them something to do. For the distressed, basic psychological care (be calm, bring them to safety, listen, meet immediate needs, reassure honestly, stay and link them on, be patient) is a real and powerful help, carried further in Caring for Those in Need.
Look after yourself while you help: stay warm, fed, and watered as Lesson 04 teaches, pace what you take on, and notice and share the weight the work can leave, as the safeguarding and self-care lesson of Caring for Those in Need teaches. A helper who is looked after is the only kind who can keep helping. The Army's part in all this, supporting the civil authority that leads, is the subject of Lesson 08, The Army's Role in National Resilience.

Helping Others